Inspired by the Victorian notion of a "calling card" ... and by 5 hours of fitful sleep =] ... I decided to draft up a list of rules by which a submissive in service to me (I like the idea of 24/7, I'd like that to be my first experience) could behave in a BDSM context if I wasn't around. This could simply be a manifestation of my control-freak origins, though it won't be an issue in that sense if the sub accepts this sort of restriction as part of his/her service to me. Hmm, interesting. I think I'm starting to get a better feel for what to expect from a submissive (viz. "service") and what I should expect to give them in return (viz. "structure").
Then again, maybe all the conversations I've been having about The Scene lately are making me crazy. Heh.
EDIT: Apparently I wasn't terribly clear, these aren't "business cards" per se. Rather, it's a script for them to read (on the back) and list of pre-approved behaviours that a submissive in my service can be expected to offer to others. A protocol for a proxy Dom to start from, essentially [heh, a "Designated Dom" *snicker*].
August 16 2005, 13:50:55 UTC 6 years ago
August 16 2005, 14:53:08 UTC 6 years ago
It's not engraved -- though that would totally rock the fuck out -- just to be printed on card stock, cut out, and folded in half to business-card size (3.5" x 2").
August 16 2005, 17:40:59 UTC 6 years ago
August 16 2005, 18:58:52 UTC 6 years ago