f00Dave ([info]f00dave) wrote,
  • Mood: Cranky: lack of sleep
  • Music: Chirs Child - Shades of Blue (yeah, the one from Amplitude)

A calling card for the kinkster set...

Inspired by the Victorian notion of a "calling card" ... and by 5 hours of fitful sleep =] ... I decided to draft up a list of rules by which a submissive in service to me (I like the idea of 24/7, I'd like that to be my first experience) could behave in a BDSM context if I wasn't around. This could simply be a manifestation of my control-freak origins, though it won't be an issue in that sense if the sub accepts this sort of restriction as part of his/her service to me. Hmm, interesting. I think I'm starting to get a better feel for what to expect from a submissive (viz. "service") and what I should expect to give them in return (viz. "structure").

Then again, maybe all the conversations I've been having about The Scene lately are making me crazy. Heh.

EDIT: Apparently I wasn't terribly clear, these aren't "business cards" per se. Rather, it's a script for them to read (on the back) and list of pre-approved behaviours that a submissive in my service can be expected to offer to others. A protocol for a proxy Dom to start from, essentially [heh, a "Designated Dom" *snicker*].
Tags: d/s

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[info]prolixfootle

August 16 2005, 13:50:55 UTC 6 years ago

So, out of curiosity, where are these rules? And I find the idea of engraved cards for submissives to be amusing...

[info]f00dave

August 16 2005, 14:53:08 UTC 6 years ago

Oh, nothing quite so fancy as an explicit set of rules, just guidelines establishing the visible parameters for the more complicated directives I'd be assigning to the submissive. I'll post a pretty version of it some time.

It's not engraved -- though that would totally rock the fuck out -- just to be printed on card stock, cut out, and folded in half to business-card size (3.5" x 2").

[info]superbrad

August 16 2005, 17:40:59 UTC 6 years ago

Que Queen's "I'm Going Slightly Mad". :)

[info]f00dave

August 16 2005, 18:58:52 UTC 6 years ago

Never heard of it, sorry. I get the message, though. ;-)
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